Stop Telling Me “There’s Plenty of Fish”: I Don’t Want a Safari, I Want What I Lost

Why is it that as soon as you’ve been dumped, the world becomes a dating coach?
“There’s plenty of girls out there.”
“Now you’re free! So many are just waiting for a guy like you.”

Seriously? Please. Spare me the clichés.

Yes, I’m aware the world is full of people. I don’t need a motivational poster or a Tinder ad in human form reminding me. The truth is: none of them spark anything in me right now. Not the girl with the perfect smile, not the one who “really gets you,” and definitely not the one with “big tits and a wild side” that everyone insists I should try.

Because here’s the twisted part:
I miss the one who broke me.
I miss the arguments.
I miss the chaos.
She was difficult, intense, frustrating—and my opposite in every way.
But she lit a fire in me that I don’t see coming from someone “soft and sweet.”

So no, I don’t want peace.
Not yet.
I don’t want to tiptoe into a relationship that feels like a lullaby.
I want to scream, to hurt, to feel something real—even if it hurts like hell.

So please, stop offering me the tourist brochure of the dating world.
I’m not looking to go on safari.
I don’t want to hunt for someone new.
I want to sit in the ruins for a while and feel what I lost.



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