The positive side of being single becomes clear after the first two weeks. Initially, you may have spent your time crying and contemplating dark thoughts, but eventually, you resist the urge to harm yourself. When you search on Google for ways to end your life, the first twenty pages are filled with messages urging you to seek help and provide hotline numbers.

Fearful that someone might discover your intentions, you quickly close Google and delete your browser history.

Need at least few weeks and then you start to appreciate the advantages of being single.

Being in a relationship feels like an exercise in discipline and rules. If you’re deeply in love, you end up being at the beck and call of your significant other. They constantly have tasks for you, demanding your immediate attention for this and that. It’s a constant cycle of requests.

You lose touch with the real world, becoming less informed because, as your partner says, “we don’t watch the news.” Your diet becomes vegetarian, and suddenly, you’re told it’s better to eat red meat because of a link on Facebook or a lengthy phone conversation with a friend. Even morning exercises are dictated, with the insistence that stretching as soon as you wake up is good for your body and brain.

Expressing your preferences becomes challenging. If you mention your desire for morning sex, you fear being seen as an old-fashioned barbarian. Giving up sugar, not watching TV, compromising on movie choices – these become routine. Despite not having a real say in the matter, you’re made to believe you have choices.

Music choices are also controlled. Your favorite music is limited to your headphones when you’re doing something for her. Otherwise, it’s all about relaxation and reflection to start the day positively.

After being in this depressing cycle, you start to yearn for freedom. It takes two to three weeks to recover, and then you begin to breathe again. You wake up in the morning, catch up on the news, and blast your favorite records on the stereo.

You reconnect with friends, discussing your football team without having to buy expensive items to make someone else happy. The soap you used as a child still works well on your skin.

While you may miss certain aspects of the past relationship, like her wearing red underwear and walking around the room in a large t-shirt, you find solace in your newfound independence. Yet, the cycle often repeats, as societal expectations pressure you into seeking another girlfriend who may once again limit your freedom.

It seems like you don’t have much of a choice; it’s your destiny as a man.